Filipina Women and Dating

Ok so you’re coming to the Philippines to meet with and/or score with Filipina girls, some of you may be completely satisfied with the girly bar or freelancer scene and that’s fine you’ll have no issues finding what you’re looking for so long as your cash and credit are in order. However, there may be some of you scratching your head wondering how you can meet with and/or pick up the normal girls in the Philippines, well fear not we have over 20 years experience in picking up, dating and marrying Filipinas and we can help you do the same.

If you are coming here for a short time and you’re not looking to get into a serious relationship then your best options are WeChat, Tinder, NightClubs and daytime locations like the mall or the beach. Outside of these it can be quite difficult to meet Filipinas as they are often in groups, with other guys or with their family members i.e. seriously do not approach if the girls are with what could be family members as it’s not culturally acceptable and you’ll strike out pretty quickly!

The culture in the Philippines is heavily religious and only recently have they amended the separation laws around marriage i.e. once you marry a Filipina it can be extremely difficult to separate from her so that’s why they are all quite careful as it’s a one time thing here so they want to make sure they get it right. This culture also seriously impacts on the casual sex scene outside of the girly bars etc. that’s why there are so many girly bars and freelancers because a lot of the local guys tend to use them.

Nightclubs and other social settings can also be quite difficult as they are not what you are used to back home i.e. in a nightclub in the Philippines it’s purely set up for groups as it’s primarily tables and chairs, or couches everywhere and the locals all arrive in big groups and sit with each other the whole night making it near impossible to approach and talk to the girls.

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However, there are ways around this as we’ve learnt over the years and not all girls are devout religious followers saving their virginity for marriage as the more the Philippines opens up to the world the more the world is seemingly opening up to the Philippines and with it the attitudes of the people, well at least in the big cities i.e. In areas of Manila like Makati, BGC and Mandaluyong you will find it easy to meet the more independent and new age liberal type of girls who aren’t looking to meet you for marriage straight away as they have their own career and with it their own money i.e. these type of girls are the best for a short term or something more serious kind of relationship as they tend not to be the typical ‘Gold Diggers’ which you hear stories about all the time.

If you charge into the Philippines with the attitude of approaching women like you do back home then you’re not going to have a huge amount of success with Filipina women, even the more liberal ones mentioned above. You are in Asia and even though a lot of these women are westernized they are still Filipinas and that requires a different more subdued approach. If you want some pointers on how to mould your approach and what works based on our success with

women in the Philippines let us know and we can help you with some key pointers, training or even wing man tours in this beautiful country.




Filipino Cupid is the best way to meet Filipina’s looking for a more serious relationship. If you are an older gentleman then you will definitely enjoy what Filipino Cupid has to offer, as well most of the girls on Filipino Cupid are looking for older guys as they tend to be from the province and want someone to marry them and take care of their family in exchange for taking care of you, basically.

There can be a few suspect young ladies on sites like Filipino Cupid so make sure you always meet them first in a public place like a cafe, bar, restaurant or shopping mall. As well make sure you do some solid back ground checks on any girl you are seriously considering to marry.

All in all you will find way more girls on Filipino Cupid looking for something serious than you will on Tinder and definitely more than on WeChat. So if that’s what you are looking for then Filipino Cupid will be a happy hunting ground for you.

Want some advice on how to make good impressions on a Filipina and her family? Not sure how to handle the local culture and would love someone to help you seal the deal with that perfect Filipina lady? Get in touch with us today and we can build a package to suit your needs!

Tinder and WeChat

Ok so if you’ve read this whole guide then you’re fully aware that we are BIG advocates of both Tinder and WeChat, simply because if you want to save a lot of your money and you want the normal girls this is the best way to connect with them.

WeChat isn’t the best site if you want to meet normal girls as most girls on here seem to be freelancers or offering massage services. However, if that’s what you’re looking for then WeChat is awesome and you’ll save a bunch of money and time as they usually come straight to your hotel or condo and will cost you about P1,000-P2,000 most places in the Philippines for a short time boom-boom. There are some normal girls on WeChat so be careful not to offend them.

Tinder is the best way to meet single girls in the Philippines and every single girl now seems to be on it as they all have smart phones and no doubt one of their friends has told them about their success with Tinder in meeting a cool guy. If you’re not sure how to use Tinder then let us know we can help you out no problems and also help you learn how to maximise your Tindering from installing the app to the final round action of tinder dating in the Philippines, of course we can help you get these girls from the app and into your condo or hotel but the rest is up to you…

Yes, you can also meet girls on Tinder for a more serious relationship, and believe us we have encountered loads of ‘good girl filipinas’ on Tinder.

However, again it all depends on the individual as well as yourself at the end of the day. Tinder will give you the best

chance to lazer guide your hunting for the girl you’re looking for. If you are an older gentleman then don’t worry there are plenty of girls in the Philippines on Tinder looking for you as the sheer volume of girls on here will ensure you’ll find plenty of potential matches. If you want help setting it all up just reach out to us and we can build a package for you to maximise your money and time.

One of our Top Hat Guide members had so much success in Manila that it became almost troublesome for his health due to quite simply an oversupply of girls and a limit of time. Put it this way our partner in crime matched with over 1,000 girls in a 5 month period and his conversion rate, as he proudly would tell you if you meet him, was ‘well over 10%’. So he personally met with over 100 girls in 150 days, you do the math, and yes he was in Boracay for 1 month of that time and by all accounts was being very, very selective with his swipes to the right… End result? He’s now met the Filipina of his dreams in Cebu and in a very happy relationship!

One fun game with Tinder can be to flip the ‘game’ and try and see with your buddies how little amount of Pesos you can spend in order to get the girl.

The record among the Top Hat Guides is currently –P1,548.00, yes that’s right he met a ‘cougar’ and she took him out to dinner and drinks before dancing under the covers out all night.

So like we’ve said before, you can play the Philippines however you want

it’s all up to you and what you make of it, we’re just here to help you along the way so use our experience, use our knowledge, or learn some of our skills and techniques and we’ll help you understand why the Philippines is the hidden gem of Asia.

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Looking for a suitable hotel to stay at in Manila? Check out our top recommended hotels below


The Peninsula Hotel Makati

The Peninsula Hotel Makati

Set in Manila within the central business district of Makati, 0.6 mi from Glorietta and 0.8 mi from Greenbelt Mall, The Peninsula Manila features of an outdoor swimming pool, 8 dining options, and a spa at the property. Free WiFi is also available throughout the hotel.

Revel in the comfort of The Peninsula Manila’s elegant rooms. Featuring views of the city, the rooms come with air conditioning, a flat-screen cable TV, and a safety deposit box. Other in-room amenities include a tea/coffee maker, a mini-bar, and an electric kettle. The private bathrooms include a hairdryer, a bath or a shower, and free toiletries while some rooms are fitted with a living and dining area.


The Shangri-La Hotel Makati

Makati Shangri-la

Makati Shangri-La Manila is centrally located in Ayala Center, a shopping and entertainment hub within the Central Business District. It features an outdoor pool and 24-hour aromatherapy and massage services.

Makati Shangri-La Manila is within walking distance of the Ayala and Greenbelt Shopping Centers. Ninoy Aquino International Airport is a 30-minute drive away.

Featuring city views, rooms at Makati Shangri-La come with a 37-inch flat-screen TV, a safety deposit box and tea/coffee making facilities. Attached bathrooms have a separate bathtub and shower.


I’M Hotel Makati

I’M Hotel Makati

Located in the Makati district in Manila, 701 m from Power Plant Mall, I’M Hotel features a spa center and hot tub. The hotel has a sauna and fitness center, and guests can enjoy a meal at the restaurant or a drink at the bar.

Each room at this hotel is air conditioned and has a TV. Rooms have a private bathroom equipped with a bidet. For your comfort, you will find free toiletries and a hairdryer.

The hotel also offers car hire. Greenbelt Mall is 1 mi from I’M Hotel, while Glorietta Mall is 1 mi away. Manila International Airport is 4.3 mi from the property.



The Picasso Boutique Hotel Makati

The Picasso Hotel Makati

A 2-minute walk from Salcedo Saturday MarketPicasso Boutique Residences offers themed studios and suites with a bluetooth speaker and kitchenette. It houses an art gallery, spa and a 2-storey fitness centre. Guests can enjoy free Wi-Fi at the 24-hour lounge.

The Picasso Boutique Serviced Residences is a 15-minute walk from Ayala Museum and Makati Commercial Centre. A free shuttle service to Ayala Mall and Makati Central Business District is provided.



The City Garden Hotel Makati

City Garden Hotel Makati

Enjoy leisurely stays at City Garden Makati with spacious rooms and free access to first-rate facilities, including an outdoor pool fitness centre and WiFi.

Featuring city views from oversized windows, air-conditioned rooms are decorated in pleasant shades of beige and pale golds. They have cable TV and a kitchenette with free tea/coffee making amenities and a fridge. Local calls can be made for free.



Holiday Inn & Suites Makati

Holiday & Inn Suites Makati

Directly connected to Glorietta MallHoliday Inn & Suites Makati offers spa treatments, a gym and a rooftop bar. This contemporary property is centrally located in Makati City, a 800 m walk to Greenbelt Mall and Ayala Museum.

Offering free Wi-Fi, rooms are equipped with air conditioning, a personal refrigerator with minibar and a desk. The en suite bathroom comes with free toiletries and shower. A hairdryer, slippers and bathrobes are also provided.

Guests can enjoy a swim at the outdoor swimming pool or relax with a massage or treatment at the spa. It also offers a sauna and tour desk where day trips can be arranged.


Red Planet Hotel Makati

Red Planet Hotel Makati

Located within the central business district of Makati City in Manila, 5-minute drive from Powerplant Mall and Century City Mall, Red Planet Makati features a 24- hour front desk, free parking, and a restaurant and bar on-site.

All rooms at Red Planet Makati, Manila are air-conditioned. It comes with a flat-screen cable TV, a personal safe and an en suite bathroom with a hairdryer and free toiletries. Towels and linens are also provided.



Guijo Suites Makati

Guijo Suites Makati

Guijo Suites Makati is 2-minute drive from Makati City’s Central Business District. A 5-minute taxi ride from shopping malls like Glorietta and Greenbelt, it offers a restaurant and free internet.

The air-conditioned rooms come with cable TV, a minibar, and coffee/tea making facilities. Each room has an en suite bathroom with slippers, toiletries, and shower facilities. Some rooms also feature a sitting area.


Royal Bellagio Hotel Makati

Royal Bellagio Hotel

Situated within a 5-minute walk of bars and nightclubs in downtown Manila, Royal Bellagio Hotel features 4 dining options and Italian-themed rooms which are Wi-Fi accessible.

The hotel is about a 15-minute drive from Makati Shopping Centre, The Greenbelt Park and The Rockwell Centre.

Guests can have American favourites at The Filling Station Café, or sample Italian cuisine at Café Ibiza Italiano. Other dining options include Café Cubana, which serves Cuban and Spanish dishes.






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